It is possible to determine a partner's readiness for an intimate relationship not only by the condition of his penis. An erection is not always visible, but it is often important for a woman to know what she likes. It is easy to understand that a person is easily and others often aroused by not so direct signs.
Nonverbal signals
Willingly or not, a person expresses his interest in an object of the opposite sex through external manifestations of behavior and body reactions. Non-verbal messages from your partner can help you understand his or her condition and readiness for sex. Often the repetition of actions indicates his desire. This "mirror" is an obvious symptom of passion and the desire for a close relationship.
In communication, a person who is obsessed with passion will try to get closer, reduce the distance to the object of desire, and this action is automatically performed without realizing it. Subsequently, he will try to touch the woman with his hand or foot, make contact with the body, but this does not mean that the excited partner will develop an attack without following the rules of decency.
The contact will be quite casual, light, obsessive, but the excitement that a man experiences during such contact is clearly felt. A woman understands that this behavior is not accidental, she sees the persistence and some nervousness of the human behavior.
It is also important to record external manifestations in male behavior. In the moment of excitement he tries to straighten his shoulders, draw in the abdomen, present the figure in a favorable light. Often, due to excitement, the partner begins to clench his lips, pressing his chin, nose or ears with his fingers, which is also typical for women.
Signs of male arousal that manifest nonverbally may be reduced to a small list of characteristics of his behavior:
- An excited man tries to please a woman - moving a chair, opening a door, assisting in something or a service;
- He tries to reduce the distance in communication;
- During the conversation the person tries to establish light physical contact;
- A man who burns with passion for a woman does his best to stay with her more often.
Man poses
The need to show sexual attraction in an identical way was born in an era of strict rules and regulations, when attitudes towards the intimate process were taboo by moral codes and ecclesiastical standards. Both men and women should show readiness for their partner to take action, publicly and without fear of public censorship. In such cases, nonverbal cues made it possible to like desires.
A woman’s desire and her testimony is wrong, in terms of a normal man. Therefore, the potential partner, unconsciously or unconsciously, tries to show the object of desire his interest through sexual gestures and poses.
Men show most of their gestures and poses at the level of reflex, without realizing their sexual orientation towards the woman. Some of them are clearly indicative of interest, some are more veiled and read only by a girl who is ready for contact.
When a man sees an attractive woman, he inadvertently begins to secrete an "alpha male. "
- The man straightens his back and straightens his shoulders;
- Trying to draw deeper into the stomach;
- If a man is standing, his legs are spread shoulder-width apart, indicating exceptional stability and strong position;
- It is also important to observe the position of the men’s shoe socks, if he is interested in any attractive man, then they will be directed towards this woman;
- If a man is sitting on a chair, he involuntarily spreads his legs, thus, as if to demonstrate his own genitals, ready for intercourse.
The unintentional poses and gestures of a man who wants to please a woman he likes often resemble the behavior of male monkeys during spawning and mating, indicating the common roots of primates and humans.
An excited man starts straightening clothes and hair in the hope that it will attract a woman’s attention by his appearance. Instead of angular and heavy walking, he moves fast as an athlete, while correcting, straightening, and removing abdominal flaws. The eyes glow, the skin on the face automatically tightens and the bags under the eyes disappear by themselves. Generally, passion makes a person much younger and really more desirable for a friend.
Now such a gesture is rarely used and many have forgotten it, but even fifty years ago, the fingers placed behind the belt of a trousers meant a rough, imaginary action aimed at demonstrating their own genitals.
The delay in a man's gaze says a lot about the object of his passion. When he shows a woman a little more time in the eyes than the rules of decency dictate, it indicates his excitement and desire for closer contact.
The placement of the hands on the thighs shows a woman the physical superiority of a woman over other competitors, her strength and power, and therefore her willingness to reproduce.
Interestingly, women are more sensitive to the male attention span and quickly notice every trick of a possible partner, while a boy may not realize for a long time the sympathy expressed by the girl.
Physical manifestations
The state of arousal in men is manifested not only by the erection of the penis, but also by other, often not so obvious, physiological signs.
A man who is subject to passion often corrects the details of clothing, loosens the knot of the tie, which literally begins to choke him. Breathing becomes rhythmic, the tone of voice may change at the bottom, the gaze is cloudy, the pulse speeds up, blood pressure drops. The peculiarities of the behavior of this period are very difficult to hide from external attention and even more so from the object of desire - a woman immediately catches such signs and consciously notes attention.
A man can be aroused not only by the direct manifestations of female sexuality, but also by obsessive thoughts about intimate relationships. The next wave of lust overwhelms the partner and his behavior changes according to temperament and hormonal levels. The general signs of erotic tension are the physiological indicators listed above, which resemble a stressful state according to the symptoms. In addition to rapid breathing and heart rate, there are changes in sound and pressure, an increase in muscle tone, pupils dilate, and an increase in saliva.
During an erection, clean fluid is released from the penis that does not contain sperm, but it is a kind of lubricant that allows you to penetrate a woman's vagina without much effort. It grows along the walls of the urethra and remains as a drop on top of the penis.
Fat comes from the Cooper glands and contains a variety of enzymes. This pure liquid has several functions:
- It removes urine residues in the urethra;
- The composition of the lubricants neutralizes the acidic environment of the female vagina;
- The viscous consistency of the lubricant allows you to prepare the urethra for the secretion of alcohol;
- The lubricant allows you to perform friction during sexual intercourse without damaging the delicate skin.
The amount of lubricant depends on the individual characteristics of the male body and can range from one small drop to 5 ml. The main purpose of the secretion of this fluid is to create a favorable environment for the birth of the baby. To increase the rate of survival of active sperm it is necessary to neutralize the acidic atmosphere of the vagina.
The main sign of sexual arousal in a man is an erection of the penis. Due to the blood supply to the penis, the cavernous bodies are filled with plasma, while the size of the body increases markedly in length and width.
Changing the size of the penis in the erect position from normal depends on the individual characteristics of the male body, but it has been observed that the smaller penis enlarges more noticeably than the more impressive organ.
The erect penis becomes firm and elastic, because of this its penetration into the vagina of the woman is ensured, the man is already ready for coitus at this time and the passion intensifies even more.
When a woman enters the womb, the male body is even more involved in the process of sexual intercourse. The heart rate increases, the muscle tension reaches its limit, the pressure increases even more
And it becomes almost impossible to restrain lust.
For men, the culmination of sexual intercourse is ejaculation, followed by orgasm. The pleasure lasts for 5-10 seconds and occurs due to the contraction of the smooth muscles of the prostate gland, in the seminal fluid filled with millions of sperm.
A man may suddenly make noises and grunts during orgasm. Sperm volume depends on the human constitution and the duration of abstinence.